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A
recent poll shows that infidelity is the biggest reason why
the majority of relationships breakup. There are however
many tell-tale signs that you can identify in order to determine
that your spouse is cheating on you. On the other hand, many
of the tell tale signs could also just be co-incidences, so
gathering proof is as imperative as just going on your gut
feeling.
One
of the most visible signs is the fact that you might feel
that your spouse seems distant.. Your instinct will
help you smell something is wrong, but It is then up to your
proof gathering skills to prove that you are right.
The
First Sign
Now
one of the first things that you might hear from your cheating
spouse is “I don’t feel in love with you anymore”,
or “I don’t feel how I used to feel about you”,
when you hear these words, it should trigger a red-flag, and
without jumping to any conclusions, it should allow you to
know look beyond those words at the stark possibility.
This
is a natural reaction from most cheating spouses, because
their raging hormones seem to cloud their true feelings. They
can experience a form of amnesia in which they forget that
they are in love with you, because the new relationship has
twisted their thinking temporarily.
The
Second Most Important Sign
Now
if you ask your spouse about a particular man or woman that
he or she has been meeting with, and you hear the words ‘Oh
we're just friends’, then its time to become interrogative.
If you see that your spouse spends more time with that person
than with you, also if you find out that he or she is bunking
work, with no explanation, then the ‘just friends’
statement is a cover-up.
Your
spouse may have a feeling that the person they are meeting
with knows and feels their emotions, or even the tough times
that they are going through. However, whatever the nature
of their friendship is, this may warm up to something you
might regret later if you don’t take it seriously.
The
Third Sign
Having
a space of your own, some place private is what everybody
needs. Even married couples need their privacy, privacy could
range from having your own work area, such as your study or
even a spot in the garden where you prune the hedges.
However
you need to pay attention if you see your spouse starting
to hide things that used to be openly discussed or used.
For
instance, if from the time you were married the computer never
had a password, but you have noticed lately that she has password
protected her computer or created a password protected profile
on a computer you share. Things that were once common knowledge
are now become secret and if you try to find out you can be
accused of breaching her or his privacy. This is a huge warning
sign and needs to be further investigated to prove your suspicion.
You may want to consider installing a keylogger
program, if you own the computer that he/she
is using.
The
Fourth Sign
Usually
people who are cheating, would need more space to figure out
their feelings. If you hear these words: “I need more
space to figure out what I need to do”, then it’s
time that you looked closely at your relationship with your
spouse. They may say that they need space to deal with stress
at work, this in fact may be the cause, but it usually isn’t
and he or she needs to figure out their relationship with
you, and think about ways of getting more space.
The
Fifth Sign
If
your spouse starts working late, which he or she never did
before so regularly, or he suddenly starts putting in odd
hours at work. Then there is definitely something more than
work related issues that he or she is dealing with. This is
probably the most common sign and one that is easy to pickup
on.
The
Sixth Sign
Your
spouse doesn’t need to have an affair outside the house;
thanks to modern technology he or she can have an affair right
in the comfort of their own homes. With increasing number
of people visiting chartrooms and dating sites having an affair
is just a few clicks away, which is why it has caused an alarmingly
huge increase in people having emotional affairs. If you notice
that your spouse is visiting pornographic or dating websites
then its all the more reason to be alarmed, as this is an
indication of the fact that your spouse might be having an
affair.
The
Seventh Sign
Many
if not almost 80 percent of emotional affairs begin via phones.
If you catch your spouse having long conversations on the
phone or cell phone, or hanging up just as you enter the room,
then its time you checked your phone records. Your spouse
might try to erase the cell phone’s last calls history,
so it would be a good idea to check your phone records to
see which calls were the longest. If you see a pattern of
long calls to a particular number reoccurring, then its time
to begin looking into the possibility that your spouse could
be having an affair over the phone.
In
this case, you may also want to conduct a reverse
phone lookup.
The
Eighth Sign
If
your spouse was not where they were expected to be, or there
is time that is unaccounted for then may be your spouse is
hiding someone from you. You may discover money missing or
find receipts to things that you never bought or have, also
clothing suddenly going missing as well as clothing appears
that dose not belong to you. When confronted your spouse gives
weird explanations and get caught in his/her own lies, then
its time to start investigating what has been going on when
you are away.
Many
of these signs may not be grounds for divorce but there are
certainly signs that should raise some red-flags...
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